My Holiday With John McCain

by Mr. Charrington on October 6, 2008

It was just before John McCain’s last run at the presidential nomination in 2000 that my husband and I vacationed in Turtle Island in Fiji with John McCain, Cindy, and their children, including Bridget (their adopted Bangladeshi child).

It was not our intention, but it was our misfortune, to be in close quarters with John McCain for almost a week, since Turtle Island has a=2 0small number of bungalows and their focus on communal meals force all vacationers who are there at the same time to get to know each other intimately.
He ar rived at our first group meal and started reading quotes from a pile of William Faulkner books with a forest of Post-Its sticking out of them. As an English Literature major myself, my first thought was “if he likes this so much, why hasn’t he memorized any of this yet?”

I soon realized that McCain actually thought we had come on vacation to be a volunteer audience for his “readings” which then became a regular part of each meal. Out of politeness, none of the vacationers initially protested at this intrusion into their blissful holiday, but people’s buttons definitely got pushed as the readings continued day after day.

Unfortunately this was not his only contribution to our mealtime entertainment. He waxed on during one meal about how Indo-Chine women had the best figures and that our American corn-fed women just couldn’t meet up to this standard. He also made it a point that all of us should stop Cindy from having dessert as her weight was too high and made a few comments to Amy, the 25 year old wife of the honeymooning couple from Nebraska that she should eat less as she needed to lose weight.
McCain’s appreciation of the beauty of Asian women was so great that David the American economist had to move his Thai wife to the other side of the table from McCain as McCain kept aggressively flirting with and touching her.

Needless to say I was irritated at his large ego and his rude behavior towards his wife and other women, but decided he must have some redeeming qualities as he had adopted a handicapped child from Bangladesh. I asked him about this one day, and his response was shocking: “Oh, that was Cindy’s idea – I didn’t have anything to do with it. She just went and adopted this thing without even asking me. You can’t imagine how people stare when I wheel this ugly, black thing around in a shopping cart in Arizona. No, it wasn’t my idea at all.”

I actively avoided McCain after that, =0 A but unfortunately one day he engaged me in a political discussion which soon got us on the topic of the active US bombing of Iraq at that time. I was shocked when he said, “If I was in charge, I would nuke Iraq to teach them a lesson”. Given McCain’s personal experience with the horrors of war, I had expected a more balanced point of view. I commented on the tragic consequences of the nuclear attacks on Japan during WWII – but no, he was not to be dissuaded. He went on to say that if it was up to him he would have dropped many more nuclear bombs on Japan. I rapidly extricated myself from this conversation as I could tell that his experience being tortured as a POW didn’t seem to have mellowed out his perspective, but rather had made him more aggressive and vengeful towards the world.

My final encounter with McCain was on the morning that he was leaving Turtle Island. Amy and I were happily eating pancakes when McCain arrived and told Amy that she shouldn’t be having pancakes because she needed to lose weight. Amy burst into tears at this abusive comment. I felt fiercely protective of Amy and immediately turned to McCain and told him to leave her alone. He became very angry and abusive towards me, and said, “Don’t you know who I am.” I looked him in the face and said, “Yes, you are the biggest asshole I have ever met” and headed back to my cabin. I am happy to say that later that day when I arrived at lunch I was given a standing ovation by all the guests for having stood up20to McCain’s bullying.

Although I have shared my McCain story informally with friends, this is the first time I am making this public. I almost did so in 2000, when McCain first announced his bid for the Republican nomination, but it soon became apparent that George Bush was the shoo-in candidate and so I did not act then. However, now that there is a very real possibility that McCain could be elected a s our next president, I feel it is my duty as an American citizen to share this story. I can’t 20 imagine a more scary outcome for America than that this abusive, aggressive man should lead our nation. I have observed him in intimate surroundings as he really is, not how the media portrays him to be. If his attitudes toward women and his treatment of his own family are even a small indicator of his real personality, then I shudder to think what will happen to America were he to be elected as our President.

Mary-Kay Gamel
Professor of Classics, Comparative Literature, and Theater
Cowell College
University of California, Santa Cruz
Santa Cruz, California 95064
831-459-2381 (office); 831-429-8803 (home)


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Vanessa 10.06.08 at 6:18 pm

As a wholesale travel rep for an agency that does a lot of business with Turtle Island, when I received this I contacted a former employee to ask if they knew anything about McCain’s time at Turtle Island. They did not, other then yes, he has stayed there. I don’t know if this account is true or not – but it has not been verified or discounted – it remains unconfirmed.

This “account” of McCain’s vacation appears on and according to that site, the person you give credit for authoring this has DENIED being the author – she forwarded the message that she had received from someone else, and her signature was tied to it forevermore. I have great sympathy for her and the other people mentioned by name in this writing.

It was very irresponsible to post this (including phone numbers and email address !) without fact-checking first !

charrington 10.06.08 at 10:44 pm

Snopes says that its “Undetermined.” Snopes also says 9/11 wasn’t an inside job. Sorry if I don’t share in your god like opinion of snopes answers but the have been wrong about MANY things in the past.

That being said – I hardly think CNN – or any other median agency checks their facts with Snopes first because Snopes was one of the fist “truth sites” that fell for the “Doctors say that sperm if orally ingested helps prevents breast cancer.” Crack pot email that was sent out in the past. CNN was the other. They actually posted it at their site. CNN: Study: Fellatio may significantly decrease the risk of breast cancer in women Snopes had this same article as true and changed it. I think they now removed it.

The number and email addy were sent that way so you and anyone else can check it out themselves without having to rely on the answer to everything snopes.

If it’s something you can prove wrong then post it here we’d love to hear about it but quoting Snopes as proof of anything is like quoting cartoon network for the best home schooling methods.

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